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Email Article Verdict Is Unanimous
What a shocker, the verdict of my readers is unanimous - this man is a "bold-faced, pathological liar." He didn't tell his wife that he loved me because "he is a low-life that would stab his own mother in the back to save his skin."
Not a single reader thought this was anything but a sick man devoid of any decency or integrity, doing what he has always done. Abusers never see how glaringly obvious their lies and games are.
He without question confessed his love for me over, and over, and over; longingly, heartfeltly, assertively, fearlessly, and sometimes tearfully, gushed about how special our love was and about how compatible we were. He gave speeches about our future and the life we were going to create. They were almost like sermons, he would repeat them so often.
For four long years. Even after he moved back into his wife's house in order to protect his son and be a part of his life.
Once exposed, as he was telling the tsunami of lies to his wife, and any one else he could, he was claiming to be a changed man, after cheating and lying for more than 20 years.
Really? That is his version of honesty. Continuing to dupe his wife. Lying through his teeth to get others to attack an innocent woman so that he could earn points and please his wife.
Manly, don't you think?
Any counselor, or therapist, or support group, or clergy would recommend and insist on the truth. Period. For reasons that are so obvious to the rest of the world, all but the personality disordered, that I won't even waste my breath.
Is that what a psychopath tells him self to be able to live with what he did to me and all the other women and their families?
Did not use the word love? Did not acknowledge being deeply in love with me, leaving his marriage and going through a divorce settlement to be with me, buying a house and planning a future with me, being a changed man because of me?
Wow, lots of hope for that marriage , don't you think? All that honesty and all.
Words of Love
He told me, with tears in his eyes, that when he told his ex wife about us he said we had "become close" - but "didn't quite use the word love." Of course he "couldn't remember" exactly what he said.
Just more lies and evading, more manipulation. The hurt and shame hung in the air as he apologized and told me he had to do it to protect all of us from her.
He came after me, relentlessly pursued me and convinced me to trust him and alter my life, and my children's for him. He said I was the only person he had ever truly loved and had ever loved him, that I had transformed him and brought him back to life.
All of this knowing we lived in the same neighborhood, knowing the risks and convincing me of his loyalty and commitment, knowing my children and professing to care deeply about them.
He destroys our lives.......and doesn't even acknowledge.......being in love? After four years of telling me he loved me every day? And then even worse, lies about everything and viciously attacks me?
What a despicable, pusillanimous thing to do. My children and I deserved better. She deserved better too.
Was it love? Listen to his words, and you be the judge...................