A True Narcissist "will not apologize for anything"

The man who destroyed my life, to quote in writing, "will not apologize for anything."  He wasted years of my life, lied to me every day, used me every day for any and everything he could and "will not apologize for anything."

He broke every promise, vow, and agreement we had and "will not apologize for anything."

When his lies began to unravel he sadistically manipulated and psychologically tortured me, telling me, while holding me in his arms, to trust him, and "will not apologize for anything."

He duped me out of thousands of dollars, and instead of paying it and being done with it, he pays an attorney to threaten and attack me, and "will not apologize for anything."

He spent years convincing me of his love, persuaded me to end my marriage so that we could be married and build a life together - and in one minute, without a conversation, that is correct, without a single conversation, evidently changed his mind - and "will not apologize for anything."

He spent years convincing me of how miserable his marriage was, how mean and unstable his wife was, how he had been depressed for years and turned into a shell of a man.

He told me every day how I had saved him, in every way a person can be saved.  He cried in my arms, often, tears of sadness and tears of joy. And then he acted as if none of it ever happened, literally became a jekyll/hyde in every terrifying sense, and "will not apologize for anything."

Lest you think it was just one unfortunate mistake, one small misunderstanding - you should know that I was just one in a long line of women that began the first week of his marriage - which he proudly told me and others.

What kind of person refuses to apologize after betraying someone and destroying their life? Refuses to acknowledge the truth? Refuses to be accountable for his actions and agreements?

This is a portrait of a dangerous man, a man who is incapable of empathy - or remorse, a man without character - or conscience. A true narcissist. I never really understood that word or the disorder. There are signs though, all men who abuse women this way are strikingly similar and predictable. But they pull it off because they are masters of disguise and deceit. 

The sad truth is that no matter how smart, or strong, or good, or kind you are, you can still be preyed upon and fooled by damaged individuals, with no true love or caring in their heart.

I hope this look behind the truth will spare even one person from the suffering that my family, friends and I have experienced.