PRETENDER:

actor, charlatan, deceiver, fake, faker, fraud, hypocrite, imitator, impostor, phony

 

Please don't lie to someone who trusts you, someone you have asked to trust you, asked to love and believe in you.  Don't lie to someone who holds and heals you.  Don't use them and strip their goodness away.  They will never be the same.

More Stories to Come

her affair

little league      the baseball bat      long walk past neighbors      

hawaii       chores         california  

I don't have any friends    

three's a crowd          lesbians  

lance to the heart      

no coaching allowed

         I'm sick of golf        buddha    

the sky is falling      walking in the rain

grocery money         fantasy life            

mother, father, sister    

  I'll pick you up   what's your sign  

tired since i met you      

you're the only one    

hey, how you doing              

 

 

One Woman's Truth

“What would happen if one woman told the truth about her life?  The world would split open.
-Muriel Rukeyser

 

Each of us has a truth of our own buried deep inside, a boundless sea of thought, feeling, emotion, upon which our outward persona sails, dark and stormy, calm and flowing, these are the currents that give us life. We humans are as fragile as any ship ever built and exposing our inner selves is not something we do naturally, an evolutional safety. Once or twice in a life time we may meet someone we feel safe enough with to open our harbor gates and let our true selves flow. It is both a thrilling and frightening voyage, and when it happens, changes us forever.

Being betrayed by someone you trust, changes you even more.

A story of betrayal is never just one story for betrayals don't come that way, they develop from a long legacy of betrayals. The person capable of betraying is incapable of certain thoughts and emotions, and operates from a deficit of character, predictably scripted by a scarcity of human bonding, repeated lacks of nurturing and acceptance.

When our reality has been shattered, we lose all faith and belief in ourselves, in life and the world around us. The one thing we all have, that no one can ever take away from us, is our truth.


 

 

Saturday
May222010

out of control egos

by citizenusa 

Jesse has one out of control ego. He thinks because he duped Sandra so effectively, he can tell the media anything (his heart is "broken" and the rest of that crap), and everyone will feel bad for him. Are you kidding me? This guy has as much emotion as a snake.


Duping is the specialty of all serial adulterers. We are not talking about someone making one mistake or going through one tough time. We are talking about a disturbed personality whose lying and manipulating is an ingrained pattern of behavior.

The man who abused me spent his whole life duping other women as well as business associates, family and friends - and he has the same out of control ego. 

He also thinks that he can continue duping his wife, other people and the public, but like all people with a damaged psyche he has no idea how other people see him in the light of day once he has been exposed.

Secrecy is essential for these abusers, they do everything they can to isolate their victims, creating a whole world of us against them.

This blogger is right, these men have no emotion. People who are capable of doing what they did are incapable of intimacy and feel no empathy for anyone, and are simply continuing their long worn out act. 

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