poor poor me game
"Does anybody really believe that James cheated because of his dad's abuse? It is a cop-out at best and a flat out lie at worst. It was said in order to gain sympathy from the audience when in reality he deserves no sympathy at all. This whole apology tour is intended to do one thing and that is to make people feel sorry for him."
An individual who commits serial adultery, doing the same thing with woman after woman, and with multiple women at a time, year after year, after year - has deeply ingrained formulas and routines that he, or she, uses.
The number one method: making others feel sorry for him. Take note, it is the primary and universal method of this kind of abuser.
My abuser was an expert at it. He solicited my sympathies on a daily basis for an endless parade of things. His marriage, his job, his childhood, his lack of friends, fun, money, sex, well - you get the picture.
I saw and heard him use this routine with countless others too; and - he is still using it. In fact, it is now all he has.
He destroyed my life with lies and deceit, and unbelievably goes around asking others to feel sorry for him, even as he enlists them to carry out his revenge, of course the only people he can find to do this are people he has to pay. This is when you know that you are dealing with a personality disorder.
- Instead of actually changing......
- Instead of taking accountability for their actions......
- Instead of honoring the truth.....
- Instead of acting with integrity toward the people they have damaged.....
They continue doing what they have always done. They play the poor poor me game -- yet again.
They make excuses, cry and complain, point fingers and blame.
The vast majority of people, who all make mistakes, do not do this. People with any self respect or integrity, do not do this.
Never.
Period.
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