Valentine's Day for a Narcissist

Valentines Day is a busy day for narcissists and serial adulterers. Like all the other holidays, it is a chance for them to secure their much needed narcissistic supply - to "earn points" and groom new victims.  It is in their DNA to to so - to capitalize on the innocence and good will of others.  They could not resist if they tried.  

Ahhh, but therefore - they are predictable and discoverable. If you know what to look for.

The narcissist who defrauded his way into my life is a perfect example. I am sure he was thinking all week end about who he would call on Monday to "just check in" and wish a Happy Valentine's Day. Of course, this would be more than one woman. In fact it would be just about any women he came into regular contact with.

There are the women he visits and talks to in the offices of the businesses he deals with - because they might feed him information and be sympathetic if he ever needs anything. There are the wives and/or girlfriends of acquaintances and business associates.  He had a very intentional proclivity for "developing" relationships with older men.  Not just any men, they had to be wealty or influential in some way, always. These men's wives were always a target for him to, also systematically, try and become their friend. 

And who to visit. 

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